A Guide to Managing Your Manager During One-On-Ones
Have you ever had a really terrible manager? As in, so bad you would actually leave your job to get away from them? You’re not alone. According to Gallup’s State of the American Manager Report, 50% of employees have left a job to get away from their manager at some point in their career.
Sometimes, bad managers are beyond repair (we’re looking at you, Bill Lumberg). However, in many cases, employees can proactively improve their relationship with their manager. How?
By managing up during one-on-one meetings.
In this guide, we’ll walk through:
- What is managing up?
- Why should you manage up in one-on-one meetings?
- 5 Ways to manage up in one-on-ones
Let’s dive in!
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What is managing up?
Managing up is the idea of managing your manager — from providing a continuous stream of feedback to help them level up their management skills, to coming prepared with answers to one-on-one meeting questions you know they’re going to ask. Managing up is a great relationship-building tool between direct reports and their manager.
An example of what managing up can look like
If you’re a marketer, for example, when asking for feedback on an article, instead of just hitting the share button on a Google Doc, add some context.
Hi [your manager’s name],
Can you please review this article I wrote? The specific feedback I need includes:
- Is the content in line with our messaging?
- I need help finessing the second section (I’ve highlighted it for you)
- Grammar check
Something like this will not only use up less of your manager’s time, it will also ensure you get the feedback you’re looking for. This is just one of the many examples of what managing up looks like!
Why should you manage up during one-on-one meetings?
One-on-one meetings are a dedicated time for you and your manager to speak without any distractions or interruptions. A great one-on-one is void of status updates, and is instead focused on things like:
- Your growth: Where you are and where you’d like to be
- How you can improve the way you communicate and work with one another
- Projects you’d like to work on
- Coaching sessions
- Sharing feedback with one another
When you’re able to use this time to discuss these things, you’ll end up with a more positive and productive relationship.
Reduce your manager’s stress
68% of managers struggle most with juggling to manage their team with other responsibilities. If this is the case for your manager, you may be finding less time with your manager than you would like in an ideal world. That’s why you need to make the most out of one-on-one meetings.
When you’re in an environment like a one-on-one meeting, you’re already having an open dialogue with your manager. So, this is a great opportunity for you to dig in and learn more about:
- What’s stressing them out right now
- If there’s something you can take off of their plate
- Any feedback they have for you that would improve your working relationship
When you focus not only on how your manager can better support you but also how you can do the same for them, you’ll be able to help reduce their overall stress (and maybe free up some of their time too!).
5 Ways to manage up in one-on-ones
Managing up goes far beyond sharing feedback and anticipating your manager’s needs. Let’s walk through five ways you can start effectively managing up, including:
- Address common questions before they’re asked
- Learn about their management and learning style
- Provide constructive feedback consistently
- Share recognition: It’s a 2-way street
- Use a meeting agenda
1. Address common questions before they’re asked
Let’s make one thing clear: You’re not a mind reader and you’re not expected to be one. However, if you see that you’re being asked the same questions week-over-week or with every project, it’s easier to understand what information you should be sharing with your manager before they feel the need to ask.
Think about it this way: If you’re responsible for a set of KPIs, share those updates prior to every meeting. By doing this, you’ll be able to minimize the status update talk because that information will already be known by the two of you. Instead, you can discuss blockers and strategies that will help you hit your targets successfully.
2. Learn about their management and learning style
When you have a deeper understanding of how your manager likes to receive feedback and their management style, you’ll be able to communicate and work better together. If they’re someone who prefers to receive feedback in writing, that’s the way you should deliver it.
If you want to learn more about how they receive feedback, try adding this agenda item to your next meeting: How do you prefer to receive feedback? Verbally, written, or in another form?
There are so many one-on-one meeting questions you can ask to continue to learn about how the other works. In turn, this will enable you to manage up effectively and communicate better.
3. Provide constructive feedback consistently
Feedback is an incredible tool for growth and development and should be shared continuously between you and your manager. Giving effective, actionable, and emotionally intelligent feedback, however, is where you might need some finessing.
When providing feedback, be as specific as possible. Sharing examples is a great way to help paint a picture of how they can do better in the future. Think about these two statements and decide for yourself which would be more helpful to hear:
- I’d like to be included more when you’re scoping out work for any upcoming projects I’m involved in.
- I’d like to be more involved when you’re scoping out work for any upcoming projects I’m involved in. With the last two projects I worked on, it felt like I was spread too thin. When you’re scoping out future projects, I’d love to be involved in the process so that I can share my experience on how long I think things will take. What do you think?
When you’re able to share context and specificity, it makes it easier for your manager to take action on feedback (especially when you set action items after the discussion!).
Another important thing to remember is that constructive feedback doesn’t always have to happen when there’s a big red flag. In fact, providing information about where they’re most helpful is a great piece of feedback to share with your manager; It saves them time and gives you exactly what you need from them.
4. Share recognition: It’s a two-way street
Everyone loves (and deserves) to be recognized. It’s not just something that happens top-down or laterally. There are so many ways that you can share recognition, like:
- Writing notes
- Giving shoutouts
- Highlighting anniversaries
- Celebrating birthdays
- Implementing a peer recognition platform like Bonusly
Recognition is also a great way to reinforce the behaviors you want to see more of from your manager. If they shared hard news well, if they did a great job coaching you recently, whatever it is, call it out and give them some kudos for being a great manager.
5. Use a meeting agenda
When it comes to one-on-one meetings, you need an easy way to collaborate on the agenda, document what’s discussed, and assign the next steps. A one-on-one meeting template will allow both of you to prepare to add to and discuss what’s on the agenda in advance, enabling you to have better conversations when you meet. Having a shared agenda will also reduce the status update chatter because you can add all of that information to your agenda and address it asynchronously before the meeting even happens.
Having the opportunity to add next steps as well means that when you share feedback, you can hold each other accountable for the next steps you agree to. If it’s as simple as taking time to process the feedback and discuss it again during your next meeting, this will serve as a great reminder to prepare for that conversation.
Managing up is one of the most effective tools in your belt as a direct report. Not only will you empower your manager to grow and develop their skills, but you’ll also build a better relationship with your manager!
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G2 has recognized Bonusly as the leader in the Employee Recognition category for the 7th consecutive season! This means the world to us.
We’ve been working hard since 2013—yes, we were the first recognition and rewards solution to enter the market—to help companies amplify daily wins and foster authentic connections.
Why do we care so much? Because companies that prioritize effective recognition are more successful and their employees are more fulfilled. Meaningful employee recognition enables high-performance, drives collaboration, increases retention, while saving time for everyone across the organization. We call that a huge win.
But don’t take it from us. Hear from some of our amazing customers:
“Employee recognition is something every company talks about; but doing it in a way that makes it easy and available to all employees can be really hard. Bonusly has allowed every employee at Headspace to feel empowered and energized to recognize their peers and allow others to share that recognition. During these times of remote work and the global pandemic, the Bonusly platform has shown to be an invaluable asset."
- Rick Jensen, Chief People and Places Officer, Headspace
"I wish I invented Bonusly. Seriously. This is the best way to give peer recognition and immediate positive reinforcement across an organization and within a team. It's so much more effective than yearly/quarterly 360 reviews.” - Tim Myer, VP of Engineering, Discuss.io
Bonusly continues to lead in employee engagement
We’re also honored to be named a leader in G2’s Employee Engagement category. Why does this matter? Companies with highly engaged teams outperform their competitors by 147%; meanwhile, low-engagement teams experience turnover rates that are 18% to 43% higher than highly engaged teams.
Effective recognition directly impacts employee engagement, and nearly 80% of our customers recently shared that using Bonusly improved employee engagement on their teams.
Said another way: investing in your employees is an investment in business success.
"In the six months since adopting Bonusly, our eNPS score jumped from 72.2 to 82.1." - Daniel McAdams, President, Andiamo
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Everyone has weeks where you check off everything on your to-do list with ease—and weeks where you’d really rather be anywhere but at work. 🌴🍹
It’s normal for employees to face dips in motivation, but it becomes a problem when your colleagues are consistently disengaged. In fact, Gallup recently reported that employees who are not engaged cost the world $7.8 trillion in lost productivity.
Employees who are not engaged or who are actively disengaged cost the world $7.8 trillion in lost productivity, according to Gallup's State of the Global Workplace: 2022 Report. That's equal to 11% of global GDP.
If that's not enough, the most recent report from Gallup found that a majority of the world's workers are currently disengaged, and half are looking to leave.
That's why we gathered some helpful tips from experts on how to motivate your employees to help increase employee engagement and experience productivity and retention gains.
These tips aren't specific to any industry, and most of them are either low or no cost. They can be applied in small establishments, franchises, startups, and Fortune 500 companies.
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Let's get started with one that has the potential to change everything: recognition.
1. Recognize great work
One of the most important factors that contribute to employee motivation is how often their hard work gets recognized. 70% of employees say that motivation and morale would improve massively with increased recognition from managers. After all, if an employee produces exceptional results but their hard work isn't recognized, why would they continue to be a high-performing employee?
Bonus points: there are other surprising benefits of employee recognition including improved working relationships, employee engagement, retention, and even empathy. 💚
It's not just important to recognize great work. How you recognize your team's contributions has a significant impact. Employee recognition shouldn’t just be an annual bonus at the end of the year—it should be meaningfully and frequently given.
Meghan M. Biro shared excellent advice on effective recognition. Here's one of our favorite tips:
Money is appropriate much of the time, but it’s not the only—or even the most effective—motivator. Treat employees as valued team members, not as numbers.
2. Set small, measurable goals
We've all had projects that just drag on and on, and seem to never end. It can be demoralizing to be stuck in a rut, which is why seeing how you've made visible progress feels so good. It's also a clear indicator that our work is making a difference.
We met with Walter Chen, co-founder of iDoneThis, who shared some great insights into the importance of clear goal-setting and tracking progress. You can check out full the interview here.
Setting clear, achievable goals provides a real boost of motivation each time one is conquered—and it keeps teams on the right track. You can magnify these effects by taking the next step and celebrating those achievements.
3. Celebrate results
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Part of what makes setting small and measurable goals so important is that it provides plenty of opportunities to celebrate your team’s hard work.
This doesn't mean you need to give a standing ovation to every employee who made it to work on time—but it is crucial to let everyone know exactly how (and how much) each of their contributions moves the organization forward.
Be specific in your applause. Don't just tell Marie "good job." Don't even stop at "great job on the new email campaign!" Applaud her success and when you do, tie her to the greater picture. For example: "Great job on that new email campaign—it’s going to really grow our community and nurture our customer pipeline."
4. Encourage teamwork
Teamwork is one of the greatest motivators out there. Knowing that your colleagues have your back and are your cheerleaders is an amazing feeling. When your motivation dips, your teammates are right there with you, rooting for you as you complete your next project. 🎊
In fact, 54% of employees say a strong sense of community (think: awesome coworkers, celebrating milestones, working toward a common mission) was a big reason they have stayed at an organization. Plus, organizations that communicate effectively are 4.5x more likely to retain the best employees.
One of the best ways to encourage teamwork is to start at the foundation with a working agreement. Working agreements are guidelines created by a team to set group expectations, provide ways to collaborate, and establish a positive team atmosphere.
5. Stay positive
Let’s be real—we’re a little suspicious of people who are happy all the time. 🤖
Negative emotions have their place, and some really good organizational changes can stem from having tough conversations. However, it's important to find ways to inject positive experiences into your team's interactions to create a net positive workplace.
Why? Because it’s actually a competitive advantage to have happy employees. Research shows that happy employees outperform their competition by 20% and generate 37% greater sales. 🤑
It turns out that happiness and positivity play a greater role in the success of your business than you'd ever imagine. If you're not fully convinced yet, take a moment to view this hilarious and fascinating presentation by psychologist Shawn Achor, explaining why:
A simple shift in bias toward positivity and happiness can have an immediate impact on your work experience and relationships, which are major factors in success, motivation, engagement, and productivity.
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6. Stay fueled
It's hard to stay focused and driven when you're hangry. That's why it's so important for everyone to stay fed, hydrated, and in some cases, caffeinated. ☕️
Unfortunately, it's common for employees to become so busy that they can barely squeeze in time for lunch. That's not great for their health and even worse for their productivity. Not convinced? Read more on food's crucial role in employee well-being and engagement.
Keeping healthy snacks around the workplace—or providing a food stipend for remote employees— is an easy way to help your team maintain energy levels throughout the day. The cost of providing them will likely be offset by your team's increased productivity.
If you don't have the time or resources to manage this on your own, there are some great services that can help you keep your office stocked with healthy snacks. Our friends at Caroo will even drop a curated box of healthy snacks right at your company's or your employees' front door. When the Bonusly team was working in an office, we'd get a Fruit Guys delivery every week. It was a godsend at 3 p.m. or whenever we needed some fuel to power through the rest of the day!
Tip! If you want to motivate remote employees, Caroo offers custom care packages that you can curate with company swag, home office gifts, and healthy snacks to send a little love their way!
7. Take regular breaks
Banging your head against a problem for three hours is rarely productive. Stepping back and taking a moment to recalibrate isn't just helpful in staying motivated—it's also important to your health.
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Sitting all day isn't good for you, and neither is working nonstop. Especially for remote workers, taking a short break every hour or two can have a positive effect on both your mind and body (work-from-home burnout is real!). Don't forget to get up from your desk and grab some fresh air!
Get up, stretch your legs, rest your eyes, and come back to work with a refreshed mind and body.
8. Stay healthy
This brings us to our next topic: staying healthy. As we learned in our interview with Button's Stephen Milbank, sharing is caring, but not if what you’re sharing is germs. 😷
When you’re ill, take a sick day! It's unlikely that you'll be getting any of your best work done when you can hardly hold your head up, and not taking the time to rest will only prolong your sickness and prevent your body from recovering.
Make sure the policies you're instituting aren't keeping people from taking the time they need to stay healthy. Think about the way you approach time off, medical benefits, and employee wellness. The stress and frustration from worrying about taking sick time can lead to disengagement and cost companies across the world billions of dollars each year.
A generous time-off policy or options for more flexible schedules or remote work might seem expensive at face value, but it can actually save your company quite a lot of money in lost productivity, poor attendance, and suboptimal engagement.
9. See and share the big picture
A large part of understanding the purpose behind your work is seeing how it fits into the larger picture. You can help boost motivation in the workplace by ensuring your team understands how each of their efforts impacts the organization, customers, and the community.
Completing a task usually provides a small sense of accomplishment, but knowing how that work helped others is the real antidote to disengagement.
Need more proof? Check out Zach Mercurio's talk on meaningful work:
10. Be transparent
Every relationship, including work relationships, is built on trust. Defaulting to transparency is one of the best ways to encourage an atmosphere of trust between you and your team and a team that trusts you will be more motivated and engaged with their work.
Transparency also helps ensure that everyone is working with the same information. That in itself can benefit the team.
11. Provide clarity
In order to be motivated about your work, it’s crucial that you actually understand what your goals and objectives are. For many employees, that understanding starts with transparency in the workplace and ends with clarity. Without clarity, transparency begins to lose its effectiveness and motivational power.
Make sure you're giving everyone a clear and concise mission they can get motivated about in the first place because it's nearly impossible to invest genuine motivation into something you're unaware of, or confused about.
12. Envision and share positive outcomes
It's easier to achieve success when you can envision it. Professionals of all types, from athletes to musicians and CEOs, all practice this technique to improve their motivation. Luckily, if you're providing a clear objective, you're already more than halfway there.
Help the team understand what it would mean to achieve that objective. When someone makes real progress toward that objective or outcome, share that progress as a source of motivation for everyone.
13. Find purpose
Although it's commonly stated that millennial employees are motivated by purposeful work, that's really true of most employees. Purpose is a vital factor in employee motivation and it starts with finding meaning in the work they do every day.
Erica Dhawan explains in an article about motivation she wrote for The Muse. She describes why it's so important to take time to explain the purpose behind the work you do:
Another key to staying motivated is knowing that the work you’re doing makes a difference in some way—recognizing the impact you’re making on your clients, company, or the world.
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14. Loosen the reins
Autonomy and flexible work schedules are incredibly effective motivators. Giving employees more agency around when and how they get their work done can actually improve their efficiency, and help keep them motivated.
In her article for Monster.com, Roberta Matuson provides a great framework for getting started on the path of employee autonomy:
Tell your employees what needs to be done by what deadline; allow them to decide when they will do the actual work. For some, that may mean coming in early; for others that might involve working on the weekend.
The key here is that you're giving employees the freedom to work on their projects when their motivation is strongest, not just when they're in the workplace.
Giving employees more control over their work also helps eliminate one of the worst enemies of motivation in the workplace: micromanagement. It can also help employees build resilience.
15. Provide a sense of security
We're not talking about hiring a bouncer for your office (although you should make sure your employees feel safe at your workplace!). We’re talking about employees feeling secure enough to show their full selves at work.
Psychological theory suggests that there is a hierarchy of basic needs that people require before they can be motivated to reach their full potential. Security falls right beneath physiological needs like food and water.
Once employees feel secure, they're more likely to be motivated to reach and further stretch their potential.
16. Power pose
Your posture not only says a lot about your motivation levels—it can actually impact them. Amy Cuddy gave an outstanding TED presentation about what your own body language can tell you, and how it affects your mood, your work, and your interactions with others.
Take a moment to think about your own posture, and the postures you're seeing around the workplace. What are they saying? If what they're saying isn't positive, try experimenting with different postures, and see how they impact your overall motivation.
17. Offer small, consistent rewards
Rewarding employees for their hard work is a motivational rule that nearly goes without saying. However, there are several ways to go about doing that, and some are more effective than others.
Annual bonuses are a common way many employers reward employees for their hard work. Unfortunately, they don't often provide the motivation they're designed to. An annual bonus perceived as routine, disappointing, or unfair can even damage motivation in the workplace.
Providing smaller, more consistent rewards is a great way to boost motivation consistently over time.
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18. Change the scenery
Sometimes a small shift in scenery can provide a big shift in motivation. If it's possible, think about how the environment your team works in impacts motivation. If there aren't many sources of natural light coming in, it might be valuable to step outside together from time to time.
Spending even a few moments in different surroundings can provide a new perspective, and often a noticeable boost in motivation. Consider taking your team on an offsite or retreat, and notice how their spirits could lighten after a day working outside of the office. ☀️
19. Practice and promote mindfulness
Taking time out of your day to slow down and practice mindfulness might sound like it would negatively impact productivity, but in many cases, the opposite is true.
Many of us work in jobs where stress is a matter of course, but as the Harvard Business Review staff explains in their article Mindfulness in the Age of Complexity, "Stress is not a function of events; it’s a function of the view you take of events."
Embracing mindfulness at work can improve productivity and motivation by providing the perspective we need to see that.
20. Have fun!
Not every task at work is going to feel like a day at Six Flags. That's okay. What's not okay is having a team that feels like every day is a slog. You don't need a ping pong table or a kegerator in your office to make work fun. Find little bits of fun in everyday activities, and focus on what it is that makes working in your organization great.
You and your team will be amazed at how motivating a little bit of fun can be.
Bravo, you made it through the list! 👏
It seems like you’re really motivated to improve motivation at your workplace. Your team is lucky to have someone who cares about them and wants to help them be more meaningfully engaged with their work. 😍
If you want a more in-depth look into how HR teams, managers, and leaders can inspire employees to be motivated, stronger, and more flexible—especially in times of ongoing change, read our latest guide.👇
Originally published on October 26, 2022 → Last updated March 1, 2023
Recognition gets a whole lot of airtime these days when we’re talking about employee experience, engagement, retention, and everything else that makes businesses succeed and people perform at their best. (Bonusly included—we’ve got a whole section on our blog dedicated to the topic!)
But with all the much-deserved love given to recognition, another equally important element of the employee—and human—experience is often overlooked: appreciation. Let’s dive into why appreciation is not the same as recognition, why they’re more powerful together, and why your business should embrace appreciation to succeed.
Recognition vs. appreciation
Too often, recognition and appreciation are used interchangeably. And while they’re certainly connected, there’s a vital difference in the two concepts that matters if you’re trying to create a workplace where everyone feels seen, supported, and engaged.
Here’s the breakdown: recognition is about what someone does—the results they get, the milestones they hit, and the progress they achieve. Appreciation, on the other hand, is about who someone is—the work they put in, the way they collaborate with others, and the way they make your team and your company a better place to work.
Appreciation is a way to show gratitude for a person's value, and recognition is a way to show gratitude for their actions. Recognition is conditional upon achievements and results, while appreciation celebrates peoples’ intrinsic selves.
While recognition and appreciation differ, you need both elements to create a company where employees enjoy working, and where they’re motivated to perform at their best. In fact, they work better when paired. But since appreciation gets a lot less buzz than recognition right now, let’s cover why it deserves to be a higher priority for every business.
Why appreciation matters at work
Recognition is, of course, critical to the success of any company (just check out all the data on the ROI of recognition for proof). But there’s a natural limit to how much recognition you can give people, not everyone can get the maximum bonus, an annual promotion, or an award. Plus, your employees can work hard and work well and still not achieve the desired result, and recognition would feel inauthentic.
Appreciation, however, can go to everyone, all the time, just for being themselves. Let’s take the example of an employee who led a team to get an innovative new project off the ground. It took months of hard work, strategic thinking, and leadership, but due to external market conditions, the project didn't succeed. The employee’s dedication to the task and the team merits plenty of appreciation, even if the results don’t warrant recognition.
And imagine you’re that employee, feeling discouraged and down after putting in those months of work. Even a small gesture of appreciation—a handwritten note, a kind email—can mean the world, because it shows that the company, and their managers and peers, value them as a person, not just for what they achieve.
How to balance recognition and appreciation
All this talk about how amazing appreciation might seem like it’s more important than recognition, and that’s not true. They both play an absolutely vital role in employee engagement and retention, and generally in creating a company that people love to work for.
Recognition is critical because, of course, you’re running a business and you do want to reward outcomes and results. You have targets to hit, and recognition helps you celebrate the people who take your business across that finish line. Plus, employees also want to be recognized for the results they produce when they’re successful—it feels great to hit those milestones and reap the rewards.
But unfortunately, appreciation is missing in many workplaces, and so the balance is tilted towards rewarding results and accomplishments only. This can leave many hard-working employees feeling lonely and discouraged more than they should when something doesn’t pan out as they hoped.
Finding a way to encourage managers, leaders, and colleagues to both recognize and appreciate employees begins with effective communication about why both elements are essential. Let people know what you expect of them, and why it matters from both a human and a business perspective, and you’ll begin to build a better workplace culture.
The business case for appreciation
Appreciation is not about giving participation trophies for simply showing up—that would be inauthentic, and that’s the opposite of effective appreciation. Plus, accountability and standards still matter when giving appreciation. It’s really about ensuring that everyone in your workplace feels like they’re valued for their whole selves, not just their contributions to the quarterly quotas you’ve set.
And this feeling has more benefits than giving everyone a warm, fuzzy glow (although that’s lovely!). Psychological safety is a term that’s used a lot because more and more organizations understand that it’s a key component in creating innovative cultures, and it can sound complex. But at its core, it’s about creating group trust—knowing that you can make a mistake or fail and still be a valued member of your team.
Without that feeling of safety, taking risks is frightening for employees at all levels. Appreciation can foster a culture of continuous learning and trying new things because your people know that they don’t need to fear failure; they’ll still be welcomed and celebrated and secure even if the risk they took doesn’t pan out.
When we work in a place filled with people at all levels who we know care about us, we not only want to work harder—we want to push the envelope (intelligently) and see what we can do for the company, our colleagues, and our leaders.
And that combination of recognition and appreciation gets better results than recognition alone. According to a study by the Haas School of Business at UC Berkeley, when people were recognized for work they did well, they were 23% more effective and productive than those who weren’t recognized. Yet, when people felt valued and cared for by the team—appreciated, in other words—they were 43% more effective and productive than people who weren’t valued.
Speaking of leaders, appreciation isn’t any less valuable for them. In fact, managers and leaders often get the least amount of genuine appreciation (not recognition or compensation based on their position and power, but pure appreciation for who they are). It can be extra meaningful to deliver some well-deserved appreciation to those above you, as long as it’s done without an ulterior motive.
The takeaway
While appreciation is not a brand-new or groundbreaking idea, it’s often sorely missing in our workplaces, and that makes them a less pleasant place to be. Adding appreciation into your recognition strategy can make a big difference in your employee experience and your retention rates too—people tend to stay in workplaces that reward both results and everything else they contribute to the team.
Looking for a way to make recognizing your employees’ accomplishments and appreciating everything else they do easier and more instinctive? That’s the key to making both elements more frequent so they become an integral part of your company culture. Bonusly is here to help—see for yourself.